One of the main reasons I started liking her was because she was one of the few girls who gave an equal (or more) 50% effort. Being more of a “stud” I’m used to setting the dates, planning what to do, starting conversations, initiating texts, making calls, even sexually I initiate a lot. It’s more accepted for a stud to get at a femme than vice versa (if you’re into the whole labels). Its all good until it gets to the point where I feel like I’m the only one making the effort and it starts to seem like I’m the only one interested. I really like my gf, but right now it seems that way and it’s starting to push me away. Rant